Why Worrying About the Things You Can’t Control Holds You Back From Reaching Your Goals
We have a friend who’s a devoted fan of his university’s football team. When he watches them play, he wears a team hat and hopes they win. When they lose, he puts the outcome in perspective. There’s always next week. It’s only a game. But he didn’t used to be this philosophical. Several years back he was truly a fanatical fan. He was deeply invested in the outcome of each game. He disliked the opposing schools and their fans. He detested his team’s longtime rivals like [...]